Showing posts with label writer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label writer. Show all posts

Monday, April 17, 2017

Turner Classic Movies and Boils

The other day (okay, maybe it was about a month ago or more) I was watching a tribute to Robert Osborne who has been the host of Turner Classic Movies… he recently died (okay, again, maybe it was more than recently). They were replaying Osborne doing an interview with Alan Arkin. It was brought up that Arkin had written about ten books, but he claimed he wasn’t a writer. It was something he did to fill the time in between acting jobs. He said a real writer writes every day—like having a boil—when the person writes, the boil bursts—but that boil is always there. The writer must write in order to release the pressure of the boil. Or something to that affect. I wished I had taken notes, but… I immediately understood exactly what he was talking about. I don’t have ten books published, but I am a writer. I do write every day. Oh I may miss a day or two out of the year, but I for the most part (daily) write down my dreams, a spiritual writing exercise and journal… babbling on about anything and everything… what Nathalie Goldberg calls, no wait, it’s Julia Cameron, what she calls, Morning Pages. And if all else fails with journaling, I am always writing a letter to some poor soul.

When I was a kid, I had a boil. On my left, upper inner thigh. Every morning my mom would squeeze that boil in between her two thumb nails releasing the yuck inside the boil. To me this was sheer torture and I dreaded waking up in the morning, knowing what would take place. This big pimply lump was an appendage to my thigh and I thought it never would quit refilling itself. I’d look away as my mom’s hard as steel nails headed towards the little red, snow-capped mountain. Some mornings while rubbing Mr. Sandman out of my eyes, I begged and whined, “Mom, do we have to do this?”

“Oh hush. Yes.”

I’d clench my teeth, eyes watering, hoping there wasn’t much to squeeze out… praying it wouldn’t refill itself again.


So, yes, I get boils… I am a writer you know.

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Happy Birthday Donna!



I met Donna through blogging. I was a bit intimidated by Donna until I found out about a dinner she had with a co-worker/friend. They started talking about writing and publishing. Her co-worker said that her cousin writes too and it turns out that cousin was me! I figured if Donna knew Janice (my cousin), then maybe there wasn’t a need for me to be intimidated because I knew Janice wouldn’t be friends with someone who wasn’t likeable. The more I get to know Donna, the sweeter I find her to be. It also goes to show you what a small world it is… Happy Birthday Donna! (I’m only guessing at your birthdate, since you didn’t tell me – other than it was in June.)

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Chicken Soup and Santa


For you Chicken Soup for the Soul lovers, you better head on over to my pal, Sioux’s blog and get the scoop of the various book signings going on. All of my WWWP gals will be signing books that have their stories in them. Some other friends of mine will be there too! At least one of us WWWPs will run around cheering them on. I’m just grateful that they’re all at different times since they’re at different locations. I’m excited for them.

I’ve come to the conclusion that I may not be a Chicken Soup writer, even though I’m told I write better non-fiction than fiction.

One genre in fiction that I didn't think I could write was romance… humorous romance, and go figure, I’ve received a contract for my story to appear in Fifty Shades of Santa anthology. When I told my youngest daughter, Rita, she said, “That makes sense.”
“How?”
“Well…you’ve been married four times.”
Gee, thanks Rita. I’m pretty sure that doesn’t qualify me to write humorous romance, but…

This is the same daughter who came home from kindergarten or first grade with a little booklet—a fill in the blank—I believe it was for Mother’s Day. My mom is good at _____________. My mom helps me with _______________. My mom says that I’m _________________. I can’t recall the exact wording, but they were filled in with sweet words written like a beginner, misspellings and all. 

The last fill-in sentence threw me for a loop in two ways. One, because it was on the negative side. It said, My mom isn’t very good at _______________. Two, was Rita’s answer. In all her innocence and honesty she fills in “finding a husband or boyfriend.” ACK. This was shortly after my third divorce.

We learn from our mistakes, eh? Maybe Rita’s right. She was right in first grade! When the book is out, you can decide for yourself. I still wonder…

Don’t forget, head over to Sioux’s page.

Monday, September 10, 2012

What’s in Your Purse/Pocket?


Dear Mom,

If you were alive, I’d have you dump out your purse so I could see what’s in it. 

Writer and critique friend, Sioux shared some food for thought by asking what would one of the characters in my story (that the group has graciously agreed to read in its entirety) have in her pocket or purse?

For starters, I decided to dump out the contents of my purse and take a look. I had downsized to a smaller purse so I wouldn’t be carrying around unneeded, extra things. The bigger the purse, the more one stuffs into it, right? And even in the downsized purse I was surprised to find so much. Here’s my list:

·      checkbook
·      mini composition notebook
·      3 pens (I sighed with relief because one time I didn't have a single pen in my purse!)
·      cell phone
·      pack of Bubblemint gum (my favorite)
·      tiny bottle of lotion (from recent visit at the Dermatologist)
·      tiny tube of lotion (from same visit)
·      car faub
·      2 gift cards (from hubby)
·      a coupon  (hair salon)
·      3 bandaids (which I’ve discovered I’m allergic to)
·      cash/coins (usually I have no cash, and just noticed the 2012 penny)
·      small wallet (when you have a small purse, you carry small things)
·      2 lip glosses
·      panty liner
·      fingernail file
·      scandisk usb thingy
·      tissues
·      dental floss
·      3 chewed pieces of gum wrapped in gum wrapper
·      appointment card with list on back
·      6 loose gum wrappers
·      2 bobby pins
·      receipt from restaurant
·      hand santizer

If I were to take a peek in my pockets, I’m sure I’d find a tissue and chapstick. I’ll confess, I’m a chapstick/tissue addict. I'm not sure what all of this says about me.

Now I’d like you to dump out your purse or pockets and share with me what is in there.

Please. 

I’m curious is all, and well… it might help me with my story. If I use some item from your purse, I’ll make sure to mention you in the acknowledgements. How's that for a bribe?

I may want to disqualify my older sister because whatever you might need—anything—and you ask her, she’ll pull it out of her purse. I kid you not. 

She’d be a winner on that one game show, The Price is Right. Every now and then the host of the show would call out to the audience asking for some odd item found in a purse and they'd get some money. “Who has a blue screwdriver in the shape of a bird in their purse?” I’d see my sister jump up, “I do! I do!”

Oh, and in case you're wondering what that pink thing is pinned on my purse... a vagina pin, made by my daughter, Rita to support her sister, Jessica and her nonprofit organization, AlphaWom. But the pins became a hit for women diagnosed with cervical cancer too... thanks to Shelley!

So what’s in your wallet/purse/pocket?

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Writer, Right?

Dear Mom,

There are days when the inner critic is so strong that in order not to have to listen to it any longer I decide that I'm no longer going to be a writer. That's it! I shout to myself. No More! I hear it chuckle because the inner critic knows it has its claws dug in. The wounds will be so deep once I remove said claws, the scars will be felt almost with the same intensity... I whimper, does it ever go away?

I then proclaim, I'm a writer! I can't not write. Even if it's a handwritten letter, I will write. I will write for the JOY of writing. Whatever brings me joy, then that's what I will write about. Forget who might like it. Forget if it will be published. Forget all the things that spin around in my head that keep me from experiencing the pure joy of writing.

My kids - your grandkids - are always encouraging me. Hey, I'm their mother. But who knows, there could be kids out there that don't encourage their parents to pursue their dream. They push me to be a better writer.

I'm not sure why, but Rita feels I'm a better memoir writer than any other kind. My inner critic wants to shout - Who Cares?

I think about you and how I would love to read your words about your life, how you felt, what you did at different stages in your life, who was your first love, how many times your heart was broken, your dreams, what you were passionate about, you name it... I would then know a piece of you that I've never had the opportunity to experience. Even though my kids are experiencing me and know much more about me then I ever knew about you, I'm sure they would find out things they either forgot to ask or I didn't want to tell... then.

I picked up the pen and started writing memoir. I have less than 8 hours in and I'm at 19,000 plus words. Maybe I do have something to share. Maybe I am a writer.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Guest Interview: Mary Carroll Moore

Dear Mom,

Today I'm interviewing a special guest - author and artist, Mary Carroll Moore. I met Mary at my first writing workshop that Mary presented in 1994. It was then and there that I became inspired to take myself seriously as a writer. I've been a fan of Mary ever since. Mary is as gracious as they come and it has been an honor and a privilege to interview her.


Lynn: You have an extensive writing career from being a nationally syndicated columnist to publishing over 12 books—your most recent nonfiction, Your Book Starts Here: Create, Craft, and Sell Your First Novel, Memoir, or Nonfiction Book and your fiction novel, Qualities of Light. When did you first realize you wanted to be a writer and how did you get started?

Mary: I always loved writing but never dreamed I’d build a career from it. It started after my final undergraduate year. I lived in Paris, studying French and taking cooking lessons. When I returned to the States, the local community college asked me to teach French cooking classes using healthy ingredients. Next, a regional magazine heard about the classes. I began writing a monthly food column which led to opening a cooking school in the San Francisco Bay Area. The school was reviewed in USA Today. A cookbook publisher contracted with me to write a book, which won a national book award, and so my career as a writer was launched. For twelve years I wrote a weekly column on healthy cooking. Eventually the column was bought by the Los Angeles Times syndicate and syndicated to 86 newspapers around the U.S..

I wrote and co-wrote a number of books on diet and health, worked on a medical team studying heart disease, and learned a lot about the publishing industry and how books were crafted. Eventually I published two books that were memoir/self-help hybrids, a novel, and a book on how to write a book.

Lynn: What has been the most fulfilling in your career as a writer?

Mary: Receiving letters from readers whose lives were changed in some way by my books.

My three most successful books in that regard have been How to Master Change in Your Life, Qualities of Light, and Your Book Starts Here. Three different genres, and very different readerships, but I have file folders of letters and emails that came from each. I share my own story, my characters’ stories, in an effort to bring light into the world, so it’s wonderful when the writing touches someone.

Lynn: Not only do you write, but you’re an artist as well. You teach, edit, coach, and probably something else I haven’t named. How do you balance it all especially now with all the social media? Do you stick to a schedule or what is your routine like? How much emphasis do you put on social media? What’s your secret with discipline in juggling all that you do?

Mary: My writing and art are very seasonal. I tend to write in winter and paint in summer (I paint outdoors as well as in my studio). The writing works with the language part of the brain, and the painting with the wordless part, so they complement each other. When I am stuck for words, I often go to the easel and paint for an hour or so until the ideas begin to flow--the creative well is filled again.

I tend to write in the early morning, fresh from sleep, before my family is up and my teaching day begins. Ideas are clearer then. I also like to take a break from the writing when I am in full flow—rather than when I feel stuck—so I feel the pull to come back to it and finish the scene. Stopping when I’m stuck usually just makes me stay stuck longer.

Lynn: Which do you find easier to write, fiction or nonfiction? And why?

Mary: Nonfiction is easier for me, since it’s very logical and I can work from an overall plan which often stays intact during the development process. I also have years of experience and training as a journalist. Fiction is a completely different language. It demands a lot of letting go, of listening and following very thin threads that become a good scene or chapter. I work much harder with my fiction.

Lynn: As a writer, what do you struggle with the most?

Mary: The overwhelm of a book, when it is drafted and in revision. I use lists and charts to help me keep the overview when I am lost in the words.

Lynn: Is there anything you wish you could “do over” in your writing career? Is there some hindsight that would help others avoid the same issue?

Mary: I wish I had known earlier about writing in “islands” (unconnected scenes and snippets that are later threaded together) versus writing with an outline. We’re trained in school to use outlines, but they are left-brain creatures and do not allow the random images of the right brain. I also wish I’d learned storyboarding early on. Luckily, the editors I worked with at my first publishers’ were trained in this and helped teach me. Writing in islands and using storyboards are two techniques I teach in my workshops and online classes. They have saved many writers many years of struggle.

Lynn: I know this is a question frequently asked of professionals, but I always find it interesting. What’s the number one advice you can give to a writer?

Mary: Get good help early on; don’t believe you can go it alone, especially if you’re a first-time author. You need to know the basic guidelines of how books are structured. Then, in the later stages, get good support to keep going—a writing partner, writing group, mentor, online class. It’s impossible to do this solo, despite the myths we hear about great writers from the past. Most of them had mentors and companions for the journey.

Lynn: And for fun, if you could ask yourself a question, what would it be? And how would you answer it?

Mary: I have a list of questions that I keep adding to. They are about my current novel-in-progress. My question is: What is the prevalent image in this story, that ties all three characters’ lives together? I don’t have an answer yet, but I’ll keep you posted!

Mary, I want to thank you so much for taking the time out of your busy schedule for this interview.


Mary Carroll Moore Bio
Mary Carroll Moore is a writing coach and teacher, book doctor for major publishing houses, the award-winning author of thirteen books in three genres, and a former nationally syndicated columnist for the Los Angeles Times, Minneapolis Star-Tribune, and other newspapers. Her latest book, Your Book Starts Here: Create, Craft, and Sell Your First Novel, Memoir, or Nonfiction Book, won the People’s Choice award in the 2011 New Hampshire Literary Awards and her novel, Qualities of Light, was nominated for a PEN/Faulkner Award. Over 200 of her articles, essays, short stories, and poetry have appeared in publications such as American Health, Boston Globe, American Artist, and View from the Loft and her short stories have won awards in national fiction contests with Glimmer Train Press, Santa Fe Writers, and other publications. “Breathing Room,” a chapter of her second novel (forthcoming), was a finalist in the 2001 Loft Mentor Series Awards and won an honorable mention in the 2005 McKnight Awards for creative prose.

You can find Mary at:

website: www.marycarrollmoore.com
blog: http://HowtoPlanWriteandDevelopaBook.blogspot.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/YourBookStartsHere
Twitter: @writeabook


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Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Accomplished: April Platform Challenge

Dear Mom,

I've never been so excited to see the month of May! I'm pretty sure I'm going to rest today. Oh wait, can't do that because My Name Is Not Bob had us make a schedule for the month of May and I don't think I included rest. What was I thinking? Somebody in the MNINB group mentioned adding rest to the schedule. Great idea. Think I'll change my schedule.

Robert Brewer put a lot of us through the ringer and back with his April Platform Challenge. If anyone wants to know something about how to build a platform, I suggest you take a look at My Name Is Not Bob or just take a look at the blog anyway, there's a wealth of information for writers.

Do you think the term "through the ringer and back" is referring to the old days when you washed your clothes and put them through the ringer to rinse them? Mom, you did laundry like that. I remember thinking when I was little that if I was put through the ringer, I'd be flat as a pancake just like cartoon characters. Right now, my brain feels flat.

I'm glad I took the challenge, but I'm also glad it is over... well sort of... I think it has just begun. I've connected with a lot of different writers in this MNINB and what's not to love about that?

For completing the challenge, my name will be in a drawing to win this:


I'll keep you posted on the winner.

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Tuesday, April 24, 2012

What I Learned at the Missouri Writers' Guild Conference

Dear Mom,

I had the pleasure of attending the MWG writing conference this past weekend. It was more than I expected with fine folks like keynote speakers: Claire Cook and Christina Katz. I had attended their workshop where I became inspired and learned a lot. Just listening to their keynote speeches caused you to walk away inspired.

I also attended workshops with Jane Friedman, Karen Docter and Shawntelle Madison. Of course, I learned more.

It was a privilege to pick up Karen Docter, Ann Collette and Sarah LaPolla from the airport. I was nervous, but these ladies put me at ease right away. On the way home I had another privilege of taking some other fine ladies to the airport: Ann Behar, Debra Hess, Rhonda Penders and Michele Mortimer.

Ten things I learned from this conference other than writing tips and tools:

1) That volunteering is rewarding, but then I already knew that…
2) To have fun! Yes, Lynn. FUN.
3) I’m a book addict. I told myself that I wouldn’t buy a book—any book—this seminar, but I left with eight. I ran out of the bookroom before I ran out of money. Is there a 12 step program for this?
4) That I need to love my writing and it doesn’t matter if anyone else does… well, it’d be nice if a few people loved it too.
5) I need to work on my first page of every manuscript I’m working on. And probably the second, third, fourth…
6) Writers, agents and publishers are all helpful and kind. I’m so blessed to be among this class of people. Seriously.
7) There’s so much I don’t know. Understatement.
8) I worry too much. I worry that I worry, that’s how much I worry. I need to just keep #2 in mind.
9) Social media is important, but I need to schedule and limit my time and keep my main focus on my writing. Focus.
10) I can’t win a contest or get published if I don’t enter. So I need to do what this piece of jewelry says that my friend, Sioux made and in case you can’t read the words: Write-Submit-Write.

Congratulations to all my friends who were awarded at the conference. And thanks to everyone who participated and volunteered.

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Sunday, June 6, 2010

Keep Calm and Carry On

Dear Mom,

I was quite surprised when I received the coolest coffee mug from my dear friend Sue in Japan. She must have felt sorry for me or something after I had written her probably whining about my lack of motivation in writing or being stuck in writing or just the struggle of writing.

When I first opened it, I saw Snoopy and Woodstock and I thought my friend Amy would be so jealous (she’s a Snoopy fan). Then I realized Snoopy was sitting at a typewriter. Cool. Then I understood the message. More coolness. It takes me a while. When I saw my name on it, well… it made it all the more perfect.

My friend told me that she got one for herself—she’s a writer too! She also told me her first car was a yellow VW Super Beetle with bondo gray on the fenders as if it was going to be repainted, but never was. Because of the yellow color, she named her car Woodstock.

I love when I learn more about friends.

Sue probably doesn’t know that I always dreamed my first car would be a bright yellow VW Beetle. Instead I bought a cheap silver Buick Skylark GTO. I think. It had some kind of double something or another that would allow it to take off faster when you stepped on the gas. Don’t ask me I never did it. Guys would drool over it.

I’d much rather drool over coffee mugs, like this one.