Dear Mom,
I’m not sure whose brainy brilliant idea it was to do a float trip, but my
friends somehow bribed convinced me to go. I hadn’t been on a float trip in over
15 years when I went with my brother, his son, and my three kids… when my
daughter and I got knocked off the raft by a branch. Unexpectedly. We nearly
drowned. Prior to that, as a teenager, I floated. The couple we were with
argued. He took his oar and threw it at her back. Oh, and I forgot, my two
sisters and brother and I went on a float trip for one of our annual “SiblingDays.” Mid-August and it was so cold our fingers were blue and our lips purple.
After we got out of the raft and waited for our pick-up, we started a fire so
we wouldn’t freeze to death.
Umm, yeah, floating brings up such fond memories… I couldn’t
wait.
But always giving people the benefit of the doubt, I give my
experiences that same courtesy.
Mom, I told you earlier how boats and water are not my
thing. This summer I’ve had the excruciating pain pleasure to experience it
four times. I joke about excruciating pain. All the trips this year have nearly
changed my outlook on water and boats… as long as they are pontoon boats. You can
still have the kind of boat that reaches speeds in excess of 10 miles an hour.
I believe the idea to go floating was Eddie’s. He wanted Susan, my best
friend, to experience floating. If anyone knows Susan, you know she’s not outdoorsy. I
may not be fond of boats/water, but I’m not a wimp to the outdoors. I told Eddie
I’d help paddle the raft since Susan and Cindy (Susan’s other bff) couldn’t.
No, not wouldn’t. Couldn’t. Incapable. Oh, I guess if they were shown, and
promised they wouldn’t break a nail they might consider it—IF they were the only two in the raft and needed to reach the shore.
I suppose I will confess when we started out, I’m sure Eddie
had his doubts about my paddling capabilities when I kept paddling towards the
bridge. He kept paddling the opposite way and I worried that he didn't know what he was doing. Exasperated I crabbed asked Eddie, “What are you doing?” He shot me a
look. Clearly he was confused. I asked again, “What part of the bridge are you wanting to go through? I'm aiming for the middle. Are you trying to go to the right?”
“Lynn, do you really want to paddle upstream?”
Oh.
Hey, the current was slow people… as in slow as Susan
learning how to skip rocks. More about that later.
I swore the guy who dumped the raft in had pointed that
way—towards the bridge. Apparently I’m just as directionally challenged in the
water as I am on land.
However, I surprised myself being the most obnoxious
adventurous one. I paddled like crazy to get the raft to spin in circles. No
one else wanted to have fun in that way… “I’m getting dizzy.” Wasn’t that the
point? Remember the merry-go-round on the playgrounds? Not the carnival kind.
The type you spin your self. They were my favorite. Or when you were a kid and
you kept twirling yourself around, you'd fall to the ground, and the world would
continue to spin?
Okay, back to the float trip.
The current flowed like the
turtles we spotted… as Cindy so brilliantly observed, “They look like little
German soldiers.” They sat stiff on branches half sunken in water. Their little
heads jutted out of their armor. Hearing the enemy, they disappeared into the
murky water.
A skinny blue heron perched on a limb stood so still that
Eddie thought it was a statue. Who does that—puts a statue on a branch at the
edge of the Meramec River? Geez Eddie, get out much?
We were trying to keep a look out for our half way point to
gage how long we’d need to get us to our destination on time. We all missed it…
something about a cliff, but there were cliffs around every turn.
We pulled off to have a little swim. Okay, I swam. Me, the
water person. The one who doesn’t know how to swim. The dog paddler. Susan,
Cindy and Eddie stood in the water. At 62 degrees, plunging (yes, I plunged)
into the water was shocking refreshing... if you’re a penguin. I’m pretty sure I
left a few brain cells at home that morning being all Paul-a Bunyan like.
Stomachs growling, we spotted a shady spot to eat our lunch.
Susan and Eddie packed enough goodies in the event we became stranded like
those on Gilligan’s Island. I think we sang that song as we floated down the
river.
Nearing the bridge—our “take out” point—yes, Susan, those
are the places where you take out the raft, not where you can order food—we realized we missed the halfway point and we were two hours
early. The bridge was now two minutes away, so we pulled off again.
Here’s where we taught Susan how to skip rocks.
When Susan threw the
rock in the water, like a “girl” (there really is meaning to that saying), I
was glad we had two hours because I had hope she’d master it by then. She did,
long before the two hours. But picture a lefty, who throws like a girl,
skipping a rock. Where’s a camera when you need one.
You all might think I’m being a little mean talking about my
bff this way. The thing is, we’ve been friends for over 45 years. She knows I
love her and all my “meanness” is in jest. I laughed a lot that day observing
her…
At the reservation desk when she asked the clerk, “So where
are the bathrooms as you float down the river?” The message on the face of the clerk: is she for real or is this a joke? I shrugged and rolled my eyes. The clerk looked at Susan with a little smirk smile and said,
“Anywhere you want.” Poor Susan, thought she was going to lose those big blue eyes. I could see me chasing her eye balls as they rolled on the floor. At that point I wondered if this float trip was going to be as disastrous
fun as all the rest.
I laughed watching Susan inch her way into the shocking
cold brisk water, her face scrunched up, arms hugging herself, her high pitched
tone, “I hate feeling sand in my shoes.” I mocked her. Then Eddie, who's not always on the ball,
commented, “Lynn, you use the same whiney tone no matter who you mimic.”
“It’s the only one I know.” Wasn't it clear that I'm not making millions as a professional comedian doing impressions of people?
Back in the raft. “Oh, I don’t like how my feet feel in wet
shoes, it’s gross.” (Who am I?)
Despite my paddling the wrong way on several occasions,
(thank you Cindy, as I’d eye her whenever I was confused and she would shake her head yes or no to tell me
if I was paddling the correct way… didn’t want to be yelled at by Captain
Eddie) and wanting to create a merry-go-round-raft, I, the Skipper, did okay.
It's been the year of water for me, and I've changed my mind a bit. What about you—is there something you’re not fond of
doing, but then you had an experience that changed it? Or what about your own
experience with float trips?
